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Hey! I'm Heidi.

I'm a home educator and fertility educator—but the most important title I hold is "Mom."

I’m blessed to have six daughters who call me that every day.

I know how overwhelming it can feel to prepare your child for puberty, especially if you weren't prepared yourself.

I entered adolescence with zero guidance, and I was determined to give my own daughters something better.

When my daughters and I experienced Cycle Prep together, it all clicked.

I knew I wanted to help other parents feel just as confident and supported—and I knew other moms could do it because we are our child’s first and most important teacher.

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I teach the real, age-appropriate science behind periods and the menstrual cycle—clear facts, not fluff—so girls can understand, respect, and be in awe of how their bodies work.

I meet them right where they are, using honest and accurate language without oversimplifying or resorting to vague answers like, 'You'll just know.' Because confusion and fear aren't helpful—truth is.

Heidi Schaap

Owner of Small Things Fertility, and licensed Cycle Prep Provider

Heidi Schaap Cycle Prep Provider

That’s why I’m thrilled to be a licensed Cycle Prep provider—offering engaging, age-appropriate, and faith-informed live workshops that take the guesswork out of the conversation.

​Now offering in-person workshops across Ohio and surrounding states—and I’d love to bring one to your parish, school, or community group.

FIRST PERIOD COURSE

Recommended for ages 9 - 11

Prepare them for their first period, together!

Experience the nationally-acclaimed program which helps parents + daughters confidently prepare for the start of her menstrual cycle, in a live workshop near you!

for groups

Do you wish you could...

talk to your daughter about periods without feeling nervous about

what to say?

prepare her for puberty positively without sugarcoating

the hard parts?

tell her about the hidden work her body does through a whole cycle, not just her period?

...your daughter isn’t going to magically wake up one morning knowing everything she needs to know about periods.

And even if she starts puberty a little bit later, she has friends who will be starting sooner.

If you don’t teach her, someone else will…and it's important for her to receive the strong, confident message

you want to give her of her body. ​It can feel awkward, especially if you didn't get that kind of education yourself,

but we don't want that fear to bleed down to our daughters.

It's hard, feeling like you may be disrupting her stage of "innocence," but...

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As her primary educator, you know you're the best person to guide her through these important conversations, but you have so many questions...

➡️  When is the right time to start? (Hint: It's probably earlier than you think.)

➡️  How do I even start? 

➡️  What should I say? (And what should I definitely NOT say?)

You know it's the first of many of these kinds of talks - and you want to get it right.

That’s why I present this workshop to you AND your daughter — together, you’ll learn the key language, tools, and confidence to keep the conversation going long after the workshop ends.

Because this isn’t just one talk.


It’s the start of a lifelong relationship built on trust, truth, and grace.

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Remember your experience?

I know I remember mine.

 

Did you feel confident about the approaching changes to your body... or terrified because you had no clue what to expect?

 

Were you taught about the entirety of the menstrual cycle and the importance of ovulation... or just about periods?

And were you told why periods happen... or just that they were terrible and pain was inevitable?

Our experiences of puberty talks vary greatly, but one thing most parents have in common is that

we want the experience for our daughters to be BETTER.

Here's what "better" looks like:

✔︎ Confident, prepared preteens who actually understand what's going on in their bodies and why

✔︎ Moms and dads who have the tools they need to support their daughters on this journey

✔︎ A culture of girls-supporting-girls, not labeling this incredible function of female design as taboo or a "women's curse," but affirming one another in their dignity through thoughtful care

This is Cycle Prep.

A first period course that prepares her AND you for the start of menstrual cycles

with science, values, and the dignity of women in mind 

Book your workshop!

Pearl & Thistle's award-winning first period prep course, Cycle Prep, is designed to be done with both girls and parents involved, so they can learn and have these conversations together.

But together also means community! One of the big aspects we discuss in Cycle Prep is creating a Culture of Care.

A great way to start girls-supporting-girls around menstruation is by setting the foundation through Cycle Prep as a group.

For groups like:

 

Schools or parishes  (as an opt-in program with

parents like a mother-daughter tea)

 

➤ Scouting groups, 4-H Clubs, or gatherings about body changes or self-care

 

➤ Faith Formation or Sunday School

 

➤ Homeschool co-ops

 

➤ A special gathering of friends,

in the comfort of your home!

 

Imagine your daughter...

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  • Feeling confident in approaching her first period, knowing exactly what to expect and why

  • Knowing when things seem off and how to talk to the doctor

  • Seeing her period (and future fertility) not as a burden or something to just be dealt with, but actually as a beautiful part of God's design for her body

  • Having a supportive parent who is prepared, informed, and calm about her approaching menarche

Why Cycle Prep?

Provides actual insight into what goes on during a woman's menstrual cycle using "The Story of the Kingdom" analogy

Answers common questions about everything from picking period products to how much blood is lost

Not sex ed but sets the foundation for parents to have those conversations when they are ready

Most importantly, the program is parent-focused.

It’s designed for parents and daughters to learn together—so the conversation doesn’t end when the workshop does,

but continues at home, where it matters most.

What can I expect?

The average workshop lasts around 90 minutes.

We will cover:

➤  Anatomy

The Story of the Kingdom

➤  Ovulation

➤  Period Products

➤  Normal Period + Cycle Variations

➤  Cycle Timing

➤ Creating a Culture of Care

➤  How to Pack a Period Kit

➤  FAQs

The Host will receive:

➤    Marketing Materials: 
e.g. flyers and social media templates

to spread the word.

Each family will receive:

➤  A 20-page Family Workbook and Discussion Guide

➤  A Period Kit Checklist

➤  Book Recommendation for Parents

➤ Parent Guide: Talking with a Pediatrician

Have more time? I can add workbook activities and craft time decorating and packing a period kit together!

Religious group? I am also able to add  a short video segment with age-appropriate Theology of the Body instruction.

We all want our girls to be:

☑️ Confident, fearless young women

☑️ As prepared as possible for all that faces them in life

☑️ In awe of the dignity of their bodies

Build a more positive first period experience, together

 

Ready for a more positive puberty?

Get started with Cycle Prep, the first period course that prepares her

AND you for the beginning of her menstrual cycles and beyond.

Schedule your live Cycle Prep workshop today!


Workshop pricing is family-based and designed to be affordable.

The base rate is approximately $100 + $25 per family + travel and accommodation expenses.
Discounted materials rates apply for additional daughters from the same family.
Please reach out for a personalized estimate based on your group size and location.​

Contact me for more details.

© 2024 by Small Things Fertility, LLC.

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